Nobody wants to listen about hardships, it's a major turn off especially when it's serious such as having an alcoholic father. Hear them cry, provide a shoulder to lean on, nor know the reason why unless it'll provide gossip. Someone that's ugly and takes the worst photos are steered clear. Those with disabilities are pitied and often ignored with politeness unless they're fat.
In the end, everybody wants friends that they can benefit off of without repaying anything more than words of flattery every now and then.
Sometimes, I wish the a disease would wipe humanity to extinction.